As of the 1st of June 2012 FIM 2010 R2 RTM has been released on MSDN And TechNet. What is very notable is that BHOLD is also available.
The media can be downloaded via the following links below:
FIM 2010 R2 RTM: https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-US/subscriptions/securedownloads/#FileId=49037
BHOLD: https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-US/subscriptions/securedownloads/#FileId=49036
For additional information on FIM 2010 R2 please refer to the release notes